Why, dear, why?

Are you ever annoyed when you think there is something of something left, but there really isn't? Example in point:
That's right, not even Claire would be satisfied by this crumb of a cracker that was left. Next time just throw it away if it looks like this:

It's ok, I still love you. ;) Does anyone else's spouse do this? (Is this passive-aggressive? No, it's just agressive...hehe.)